Compare fourteen base social actions and six shared-home activities. NPC restrictions and real-player menus differ. Relationship, needs, time, chance and Bae status help choose an action; an invitation can still be declined, and the other player may not be in the game.
Say Hello gives relationship +6 over 10 game minutes, with NPC range ending at 10. Gist gives relationship +7, Social +18, Fun +5 over 25 minutes. Check minimum/maximum relationship, romance and Bae-only conditions with the gains.
Crack Joke: base chance 0.55, gain +10, failure −5. Talk About Life: minimum relationship 25, gain +12, 40 minutes. Hang Out: minimum 30, 60 minutes with Social/Fun effects. An unavailable high-gain action is not an immediate option.
Chance = base + Charisma × 0.035 + applicable trait/reward bonuses + relationship/300 + mood/400, clamped to 0.05–0.98. An action with no base chance of its own uses 0.95. Flirt base 0.5, Charisma 2, relationship 30 and mood 0 gives 0.67; Sweet Mouth +0.15 gives 0.82, relevant Charmer +0.15 gives 0.97.
NPCs use the base relationship and romance gates. Real-player generic menus exclude Ask for Small Money and Ask to Be Bae; Break Up is not a generic choice. A visit goes through only when the game, and the other player, allow it.
NPC Ask to Be Bae requires relationship 65. The separate real-player entry starts at 40, provided the target is not already your Bae and the partner limit permits it. Kiss, Make Out and Break Up are Bae-only; Break Up lowers relationship by 30.
Choose conversation, shared activity or a relationship request from the current menu. After the interaction, use the changed needs/relationship. The invitation, and any change to your character, happens only inside Lagos Life.
Listed relationship changes from 14 social actions
Listed relationship points and defined game minutes
Listed relationship-point change · Numbered social action
Helpful and harmful relationship changes are separate. Each action takes a set number of game minutes and needs the relationship high enough to try it. NPC menus and player menus do not both offer all fourteen actions. Chance, a rejection, or your relationship can still stop an action.
| Legend number | Action | Game minutes | Listed relationship change | Minimum relationship | Maximum relationship | Romantic action |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Say Hello | 10 | 6 | -100 | 10 | No |
| 2 | Gist | 25 | 7 | -20 | No | |
| 3 | Crack Joke | 15 | 10 | 0 | No | |
| 4 | Hype Them Up | 15 | 9 | 5 | No | |
| 5 | Talk About Life | 40 | 12 | 25 | No | |
| 6 | Hang Out | 60 | 14 | 30 | No | |
| 7 | Hug | 10 | 8 | 40 | No | |
| 8 | Flirt | 15 | 12 | 30 | Yes | |
| 9 | Kiss | 10 | 10 | -100 | Yes | |
| 10 | Make Out | 30 | 14 | -100 | Yes | |
| 11 | Ask to Be Bae | 20 | 20 | 65 | Yes | |
| 12 | Break Up | 10 | -30 | -100 | Yes | |
| 13 | Ask for Small Money | 15 | -12 | 50 | No | |
| 14 | Throw Shade | 10 | -15 | -100 | No |
Legend
No. The NPC Bae request uses a relationship threshold of 65. The separate real-player entry uses 40 and also checks relationship and partner-limit conditions. These are different menus, so first identify whether you are interacting with an NPC or another player, then use the conditions shown for that specific action.
No. Flirt’s listed 0.5 is the base chance used for its social calculation. Other applicable modifiers change that value, and the final result is clamped. A listed chance does not promise success for the next attempt; review the current relationship and the menu you are using before planning a follow-up action.
No. NPC interactions and real-player interactions use different action lists, and shared-home activities have a separate six-item set. An action that works on an NPC can be missing when you visit another player. Identify the target and setting, then use the action actually offered by your current game menu.
